Some Positive Parenting tips...
Be calm
If situations are dealt with in anger, they can escalate out of control; count to 10 and revisit the situation.
Take time out
Children need time out as do parents. Allow a child time to reflect on their wrongdoing. Distract them from the source of the problem. Encourage them to help you by giving them a task instead of allowing their tantrum to continue.
Be firm but kind
For example, explain why it is dangerous to touch something hot, rather than slapping your child without explanation. Talk to your child at their level.
Give a child choices
Allowing them to make responsible decisions, so they can deal with consequences and learn the value of that.
Give your child logical and reasonable consequences of action
If children are aware of why something is wrong, they are less likely to carry out an action if they know it may hurt someone's feelings.
Be consistent
In doing this, children become aware of their boundaries.